Islam is a religion of peace that values skill in dealing with difficult or delicate situations; it urges its followers to practice appropriate and tasteful social behavior at all times. One who has poise and social grace is well-versed in the art of dealing with people in a respectful and appropriate manner, and effectively draws forth, the beauty that exists in all relationships. Islam values that trait.
Poised individuals are tolerant and know how to accommodate differing opinions without compromising their beliefs; a poised individual is dignified, self-confident and composed. He or she will take the time to listen to another’s point of view while gently pointing out its flaws or weaknesses in a bid to promote a mutually acceptable compromise.
Individuals with poise take care to promote that which they believe is just and proper. Poise in character goes beyond action, it is evident in appearance. A poised individual elicits a positive response that garners respect. Poise and ‘finesse’ go hand in hand, to create a harmony and peace that enables others to feel at ease.
One who has poise is highly sensitive to inappropriate behavior, and is committed to doing what is right and just. He or she will focus on even the smallest details to maintain a sense of balance, peace and equilibrium in all circumstances.
While some suggest that poise is a quality valued only in western cultures, learned and promoted by western institutions, they are wrong. Many Islamic principles recognize and value poise and it is a characteristic that has always been highly prized and nurtured among Muslims.
Contrary to what some believe, someone who is a faithful follower of Islam does more than commit to prayerful living and going to the mosque. Islam promotes a complete way of life that is based on numerous details outlined by God. Faithful Muslims respect the teachings of God in all their actions, that is to say the teachings are not reserved for contemplation in the mosque but rather, followed and practiced at all times, in all relationships and interactions with others, in all thoughts and actions. The teachings extend to social interaction, offering guidelines for appropriate behavior is social settings.
Few non-Muslims appreciate that Islamic teachings includes guidelines that promote poise, tact and social grace – including guidelines on appropriate table Sponsored manners, speech and social con-duct among family members, friends and acquaintances, business partners and countrymen.
Muslims believe that God chose Islam and the prophet Muhammed to convey God’s instructions on how to live, and those who follow the instructions will be rewarded on Judgment Day. Given that belief, it is important that such instructions be accessible to all mankind and be comprehensively outlined to enable mankind to understand and obey the teachings through all ages, until the end of days.